Embark on a journey back to an era of timeless elegance as I share my unexpected discovery of the elegant Graylyn Estate in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. It’s a gem that transcends time, with an aura of a European country estate nestled in the heart of America.
As my travels brought me into the arms of the Graylyn Estate, I couldn’t help but feel as though I had been swept off to a scene from Downton Abbey. The historic mansion welcomed my friend Angie and me with its stoic beauty, and the perfectly manicured grounds framed by mature trees hinted at the majesty within.
Graylyn’s Preservation and History
Graylyn Estate isn’t just another boutique property; it’s a testament to a bygone era, proudly carrying the torch as a Historic Hotels of America member. This title is not given lightly; it recognizes historic properties’ authenticity and diligent preservation.
With nearly 300 hotels under its wing, Historic Hotels of America ensures that every visit is an immersive historical experience.
The Graylyn Estate began as a dream realized by Bowman and Nathalie Lyons Gray. Bowman was the first non-family member Chairman-of-the-Board, later President, of tobacco giant R.J. Reynolds. Constructed between 1927 and 1932, the estate’s design and finer touches reflect the keen eye of Nathalie Gray, who personally oversaw its creation.
An Almost Immediate Tragedy
Though tragedy struck early — Bowman’s passing merely three years after they settled in — the 85-room mansion still echoes with their presence. Original furnishings and personal photographs offer an intimate glimpse into the lives of the Gray family, making each encounter within the property feel like an introduction to its original inhabitants.
In 1946, the narrative of Graylyn took a generous turn when Nathalie Gray bequeathed the estate to the Bowman Gray School of Medicine. Wake Forest University became the subsequent steward in 1972.
Through a monumental $6 million restoration in 1984, the estate’s splendor was reborn as the Graylyn International Conference Center. Today, it boasts private guest rooms and 15 meeting rooms, esteemed as one of the premier conference centers in the nation.
Arrival and Check-in to Graylyn Estates
Guests today are greeted with bespoke Graylyn merchandise, a nod to its inclusion on the National Register of Historic Places and its esteemed visitors, including former U.S. Presidents Gerald Ford, Ronald Reagan, and George Bush, Sr.
During your stay, meander through the estate’s common rooms (expertly managed by Wake Forest University). Also onsite are 35 uniquely appointed bedrooms with en-suite bathrooms. Perhaps you’ll stumble upon a quiet corner perfect for reading, lively parlor games, or a spot for a cocktail by one of the many fireplaces.
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Interesting Special Touches
The interiors of Graylyn are nothing short of impressive, adorned with French prints and breathtaking antiques. The walnut paneling and romantic sconces emphasize the mansion’s opulent aesthetics.
Of particular note is a card room with “hand-carved gessoed and gilded wood paneling” imported from a small mosque in Turkey. And if walls could talk, the hand-carved doors and paneling from Paris in the library would regale visitors with stories spanning centuries.
Don’t miss the gorgeous circular stair tower, reminiscent of medieval grandeur, an idyllic backdrop for photographs embodying drama and history.
Below, the cellar surprises with a bar reminiscent of a refined dungeon, complete with billiards, darts, and a small library. Although the swimming pool has been repurposed, the room housing it, ringed with hand-painted murals, is a testament to the versatility and charm of the estate.
A fun fact for the culturally curious: a peek into the men’s pool dressing room reveals tiles showcasing “Old Joe” from the iconic Camel cigarette packaging — a nostalgic connection to the estate’s lineage.
Guest Rooms and Amenities
Upstairs, guest rooms cohesively blend modern comforts with classic design. My personal sanctuary featured a cozy sitting room with loads of natural light and a sumptuous bedroom I struggled with leaving each morning. I loved the leather chair and dormer window with a window seat.
The bathroom impressed with a contemporary glass door and stylish decor, striking a delightful contrast to the estate’s historic roots. I immediately wanted to go home and remodel mine based on this design.
Graylyn’s offerings extend beyond the walls, with a guest directory filled with activities, from cycling to tennis, ensuring that your stay is as active as it is beautiful.
The estate holds one more delightful secret: a tiled room (snack kitchen) brimming with the simple pleasure of unlimited ice cream bars — an unexpected treasure indeed.
Impressive Food
At the break of dawn, Graylyn Estate welcomes you with a sumptuous Manor House breakfast between 7 and 10 AM. The day unfolds to the culinary artistry of Chef Mark Fortino, who orchestrates seasonal symphonies on your plate, whether you dine inside the Manor House or on the lovely outdoor patio.
The tasty Eggs Benedict gets my vote of approval, but the French Toast is terrific, too.
Culinary escapades don’t wane with the sun; from 11 AM to 9 PM, Chef’s lunch and dinner options await. Angie and I enjoyed two meals in the Grille Room, commencing with an ensemble of greens enrobed in cucumber (I ventured the Caesar salad path), followed by a delectable salmon dish drizzled with a zestful tropical sauce over creamy risotto.
A warning: do not—I repeat, do not—bypass the seduction of Graylyn Estate’s house-made desserts. I dove into their sweet embrace so fervently; their memory exists not in pixels but only in my mind.
And let’s remember, in-room dining at Graylyn Estates is always an option.
Graylyn’s Impeccable Grounds
Outdoors, 55 acres of meticulously maintained grounds beckon. Gaze upon the tranquil pond, navigate trails by bike or foot, and marvel at the playful squirrels and black & white ducks. It’s an invitation to explore and embrace the serene beauty of this property’s past, present, and future.
Beneath Graylyn’s skies lies the back patio—perfect for sipping wine or sharing the day’s stories. French doors open to a lovely goldfish pond with its original 1930s cherub statues and romantic stone gazebo. The views may leave you utterly enchanted.
Graylyn Estates isn’t just steeped in luxury—it’s a stride into a past rich with charm, every corner a narrative waiting to enrapture your wanderer’s soul.
Thanks to Historic Hotels of America and Graylyn Estates for hosting my accommodations. As always, reviews and opinions are 100% mine and unbiased.
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